how many jobs have we worked together?
how many movies have we watched together?
how many dates have we been to?
when did i started loving you, and stop treating you like my sister?
when did i emerge so deeply in love with you, til i don’t feel like giving up when you asked me to?
when will you be back from France?
and when you give me a chance to prove that I’m more than someone able to understand and take care of you?

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some of the important dates in my memory.

11th September 2008.

If you still remember this date, it’s the date when I first drove you out, the day we went to the Zoo with L & M, to watch Bangkok Dangerous @ Amk Hub with J & W, then to K-pool, then to exploring places, Geylang streets, Changi Village, OCH & the Airport. Its also an important date, cos its the date when your dad approved you to go to France, which I’m really happy for you, that after so much of persuations and hardwork, you finally seeing your hardwork being paid off.

And i remembered, thats also the first time, at Changi Airport T1 Gallery, you lied on my shoulder, when you were feeling tired. At the moment of time, i just hoped, that time would stopped, til the first dawn came out.

11th October 2008

That day, we went out in the night to sing with J & W @ Amk hub til 2am. I remember you are also shy of singing. That was also the first time, i hear you sang officially, not counting the one at my house that one, and also, making a note to notice all of the songs you liked. That was also the time, when i hoped that, we would sing like this, as always.

12th November 2008

We couldn’t went out on 11th Nov , so it would make a perfect 11 on the 3 months, as you had school. On 12th Nov, as promised, i would bring you to food hunt for 11 of your favorite local food, but, due to the time constraint, we only had 4 of them. It is also another date when i rented a car out just for this date. And i know you always told me, girls dun like flowers, thou i know you liked them and i bought for you, the first time, i bought flowers for a girl. And after which, in the drizzling rain, i brought you to the Singapore Flyer, as i know, you would love to go there before you go France, and so did we. Recalling about all the ‘first’ on the day, im sure this little secret between us will become part of my memory. What could i say? sillyness and selfishness was that in my mind.

13th November 2008

I thought everything is okays, when i fetched you and E despite my tiredness to the French Embassy, then back to school. Upon seeing the last smile on your face, you said you would msg me later. And i waited, and waited. Upon returning the car, to the long giddy 161 ride back woodlands, i waited for your sms. . .

til the worst thing came. when you told me, to distant from you, to give up you, to stop pursuiting love for you.

I was shocked, of a sudden.

Reason being, you are giving me false hope, since when? i would really wanna let you know that, loving someone, doesn’t need to be repay back with love or wanting anything in return. I just wanna stay by your side and providing you the best i could. Seeing you happy, makes me happy too.

And, you told me, the people around you thinks that you ‘re hurting K and giving false hope to guys, and them thinking you as a player.

When you texted me all these, have you spared a thought for my feelings? If you told me everything from scratch that happened that made you think in this way, i might tell you that, i understand your situation, and i would swell off in your life.

And if you told me, if you hadn’t any feelings for me, i would withdraw myself, and leave you in your life.

Thou we ain’t a couple, but that doesn’t stop me from pursuiting you right?

And if they are really your friends, then they should respect what you are doing, and let you decide for yourself in your love life, and not be gossiping behind your back, telling you are b**** or sth.

I know that, you care about what your friends said, but to resort to telling me me all these, do you really think its fair for me to hear all these?

I wouldn’t said its fair for me, but i would only said, since i played the game, i should jolly well understand the rules of the game from start. But one thing for sure, I was never wrong about you.

I saw K’s blog too, about moving on, and i thought for a moment, that should i do the same thing?

And i read ur blog this afternoon, realising that, we always chatted current affairs, and not about your feelings. Why is that so? its because, we never had a chance to do so. I would really wanna know about what you are thinking, but you are always diverting the topic, or saying nothing at all.
And why issit that, when it cames to feelings and thoughts, he always get the chance to hear about it, and not about me? Not really once, when you ever told me about how you feel.

I know that, the france visa and trip thing has been driving you and your friends hay-wire, and i did my best to help you if i could, even if driving you guys to the embassy and getting guides/brochures for you.

And i know that, you need some cash for the last month in france, so i did all my best, in making sure you will land up in jobs that i got you, and hoping you can earn as much as you could.

I know you have that bit of feeling for me, and even if that’s small, at least i know, i stand somewhere in a corner of your heart.

And even if waiting for 6 months later, it would all be worth it.

Probably by then, you might really had a caucasian boyfriend, or we might start afresh again if there’s still feelings (:

We dunno about the future, but i know something for sure, we decide our own destiny.

Take good care for this week, and if you need me, you know how to find me. Drop me an email, or leave an offline message.

And i hope you will be alright this week, and when i’m back, i hope to have a good chat with you again.

Take care, W.

Going back to the corner where I first saw you,
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag I’m not gonna move,
Got some words on cardboard got your picture in my hand,
Saying if you see this girl can you tell her where I am,
Some try to hand me money they don’t understand,
I’m not…broke I’m just a broken hearted man,
I know it makes no sense, but what else can I do,
How can I move on when I’m still in love with you…

Cos if one day you wake up and find that you’re missing me,
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I can be,
Thinking maybe you’ll come back here to the place that we’d meet,
And you’d see me waiting for you on the corner of the street.

So I’m not moving…
I’m not moving.

Policeman says son you can’t stay here,
I said there’s someone I’m waiting for if it’s a day, a month, a year,
Gotta stand my ground even if it rains or snows,
If she changes her mind this is the first place she will go.

Cos if one day you wake up and find that you’re missing me,
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I can be,
Thinking maybe you’ll come back here to the place that we’d meet,
And you’d see me waiting for you on the corner of the street.

So I’m not moving…
I’m not moving.

I’m not moving…
I’m not moving.

People talk about the guy
Who’s waiting on a girl…
Oohoohwoo
There are no holes in his shoes
But a big hole in his world…
Hmmmm

and maybe I’ll get famous as man who can’t be moved,
And maybe you won’t mean to but you’ll see me on the news,
And you’ll come running to the corner…
Cos you’ll know it’s just for you

I’m the man who can’t be moved
I’m the man who can’t be moved…

Cos if one day you wake up and find that you’re missing me,
And your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I can be,
Thinking maybe you’ll come back here to the place that we’d meet,
And you’d see me waiting for you on the corner of the street.
[Repeat in background]

So I’m not moving…
I’m not moving.

I’m not moving…
I’m not moving.

Going back to the corner where I first saw you,
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag not I’m not gonna move.

Here are some links.

Link 1

Link 2

Dun laugh when you read this. Haha.

Thanks to Kennedy for providing me the link.

First to go is Leona’s 17th birthday celebration @ the Whiskey’s Bar.

Leona Happy Seventeenth.

Group Shot: From left, Lana, Ran, Leona, Jia ming, Ben, Kc & Leona’s brother(forgot wad name lol)

The 4 Heavenly Kings.

& not to forget about my dearest ex-boyfriend who spent 3.5 yrs in SP with me

Sometimes, others even said we are sweet as those couples patrolling outside Esplanade.

Oh, and Leona’s waterfall drink for the night makes the headline.

Other than that, we had our fun thru the whole week since like Sunday (interview) , Monday (fitting session) , Tuesday - Friday (Working) for Berocca Event. It is an campaign to advertise Berocca Performance, a kind of health supplement taken to boost performance during office hours when one feel lethargic and restless. Hence, we are supposed to dress in office wear and travel around like normal office people does.

First fitting for the RR.

Cute right the rat, with hairy chest

And a look at my Fox outfit, damn i look fat here

Outside, a cam-whoring fox, do i look hideous seriously?

Compared to a minnie mouse =(

Outside Tanjong Pagar MRT station with Jeffery the Vulture

jeff and alouis keep saying im like a lecherous wolf -.-

to prove to them, yes i am LOL. and what’s alouis doing in the background??

My fox is such a beauty, not a creature lor.

some of the animals’ heads, i hope SPCA or Mandai Zoo doesn’t capture us back..

Retarded Rat HAHA.

And see, ppl taking mini naps during the short breaks.. damn our job is really tiring, so please understand WENDYTOH.

Day 3 & 4, we had a booth, and this is the booth.

Your Office is a jungle, Stay Sharp, and Alert

Alouis, Jeff, Wendy, Ben

Selling two puppies, Contact me for more details.

WendyToh, take a look at this, your boyfriend flirting o.o

Vulture:” Where’s the document I asked you to handle?” Rat:” Omg, i forgot about it, so sorry boss.”

Mr Vulture aka Jeffery.

A fox that loves to cam-whore

A Office rat that loves to gossip.

Me and Alouis, opps, i meant, The Snake & The Rat

All 3 of them at work.

Shag at work.

The job is really damn fun man, impersonating different roles in an office which is relatively true of the 4 animals, the Fox, the Rat, the Snake & the Vulture. Its really fun working with them and the crew.

Saturday, went out for Kenneth’s 20th Birthday Celebration. All pictures taken with Edwin’s Canon DSLR EOS 450D.

Out there.

The Peeps

Weixin, Weilong & Edwin Shot 1

Weixin, Weilong & Edwin Shot 2

Yanzhang thinks he’s cute.

Edwin & Yanzhang, again he think he’s funny.

Future IR in making.

I don’t go sentosa, people don’t go. I go, everyone goes. -.-

Best Hotdogs ! omg yz ur favorite.

I like this picture particularly which i took one.

Bikini Bar Beer Promotion

Aloha Sentosa !

Wow, a golden retriever bathing..

Take a closer look, guess who’s the owner?

She’s seems familiar on tv .. hmmm..

WEIXIN ! DUN BLOCK ME, I TRYING TO BE A PARAPAZZI ! -.-

hehe, caught this two celebrities in action, still dunno who are them yet?

Familiar? Hong Jun Yang, Project Superstar 1 semi-finalist, local singer

& his girlfriend Candyce Toh Hwei Pen, Project Superstar 1, quarter-finalist too.

Aiyo, weiloong, need to book in later, still come Sentosa LOL. i love this picture too.

Weixin ge ge.Don’t play play with him ok. Used to be RP’s Wushu Club Chairman.

The hottest beach in Singapore.

He really think he’s Jay Chou or sth. -.-

Say Cheese, our dear foreigners visitors.

I like this building infrastructure, like those Visitor Centre in Jurassic Park movies. LoL.

Scenery shot.

Our Sentosa-Ambassador-To-Be, Mr Edwin Ang

Our Sentosa-Toilet-Cleaner-To-Be, Mr Tan Yanzhang

Kids having fun.

Scenery shot.

Don’t run kid, you might fall.

Chio bu taking picture for others leh. =p

That’s life, sitting down by the beach, enjoying a lovely cocktail.

Candid.

Emoness.

Gennieve.

Your birthday leh brother, why so emo?

So random.

Oh, my another camera-shy brother, kiat min girls love him i dunno why o.o LOL

Ben and Eve.

Another candid shot by Edwin again.

Saw this Schnauzer when a caucasian guy brought him walked past us.

Cute right? DAMN. I WANT A DOG TOO FOR CHRISTMAS ):

Kiat smile so cute in this picture LOL

Laughters.

First attempt to get on my back, stupid dickhead.

Even if u failed, u can still always try again. That’s life.

Ta-Da, presenting you our 7yrs of friendships, not gayness.

Scenery Shot.

Shadows.

Sun is setting

Group Shot, (weixin & weilong not here)

Treasure Resort Sentosa Singapore

Future Island Resort in making.

Sentosa Bridge

The Port that never sleeps.

St James Power Station

Later after Sentosa, went to Earl Swensens Restaurant @ Vivocity to have our dinner.

Mine and Edwin’s Chilli Lobster Pasta

Look into my eyes.

Salad Buffet Bar which is only available in this Swensens Restaurant.

Clam Chowder Soup in Bread Bowl

Ok, time for the birthday boy to blow the cake.

I swear that we were singing “Make a wish by Zai Zai , Vic Chou(F4) ” that point of the time LOL

See, every birthday boy/girl is always happy.

Even, kiat is happy too LOL, his 7yrs gay brother

Lastly, Edwin & Nerd

This week is also filled with fun, with Wednesday which i’m so looking forward to, & this weekend going Penang with my parents via road trip.

So tired !

P.S. sorry for the amount of pictures on this post, bo bian, no time update, got time update, everything also update LOL.

Duet By: JJ Lin Jun Jie & Ah Sa (Charlene Choi from Twins)

JJ:
我還在尋找 一個依靠 和一個擁抱
I am still searching for someone I can rely on, for an embrace
誰替我祈禱 替我煩惱 為我生氣為我鬧
Who will pray for me? Worry for me? Get angry on my behalf and fight for me?

Charlene:
幸福開始有預兆 緣份讓我們慢慢緊靠
Signs of happiness are beginning to appear Fate is slowly drawing us ever nearer…
然後孤單被吞沒了 無聊變得有話聊 有變化了
And loneliness has been erased, engulfed There’s been a change From boring to conversational.

Chorus JJ & Charlene:
小酒窩長睫毛是你最美的記號
Little dimples, long eyelashes… they’re your most beautiful, memorable features

Charlene:
我每天睡不著想念你的微笑
Every night, I can’t sleep… I keep thinking of your smile
你不知道你對我多麼重要
You don’t know how important you are to me

JJ:
(你不知道 多麼重要)
(You don’t know How important you are)

Charlene:
有了你生命完整的剛好
With you, my life is complete

JJ & Charlene:
小酒窩長睫毛迷人的無可救藥
Little dimples, long eyelashes… they’re incurably captivating

JJ:
我放慢了步調感覺像是喝醉了
I’ve slowed down my tempo, feel as though I’m drunk

JJ & Charlene:
終於找到心有靈犀的美好
I finally know the happiness of being perfectly in tune with someone else...

一輩子暖暖的好 我永遠愛你到老
A lifetime of warmth and happiness; I will love you forever… until (we’re both) gray and old. .. (;

1) Book Napfa test
2) Exercise; 2.4km run (2 rounds Woodlands Circle),pull ups, push ups, sit ups, tuck jumps every night
3) Spam KC’s phone everyday to pester him to help me find the car rental stuffs
4) Work this whole week from Tues to Fri for Berocca events as some shitty scary mascots @ CBD area
5) Plan for 12th November
6) Book & Plan KC&BEN-before-enlistment-last-gathering; Chalet for 27th nov to 30th nov .

So super packed this week.. I need a personal assistant… anyone wanna work for me? $6 per hour.. pls send ur resume to i.am@bentoh.com .. HAHA

Walk together
A separate walk
Is not to say that the dream hasn’t done the most pain
If you step back
I can bear
In the final speak
Where is the love ?

Can give me a song’s time ?
Hold closely then the embrace becomes forever
In my mind
No need too many insomnia
If you want to forget, then I can adapt

Can give me a song’s time ?
To hear the story until the last to say good-bye
You take my tears
Let it stay in the rain
If you still doubt about my courage, it was a despicable

The sky was wet
It becomes more gray
You say you don’t know why at this time you’re in one’s hand
I am committed to the sun
Gray’s more silly
Even if only afraid of doing wrong thing is a miss

Walk together
A separate walk
Is not to say that the dream hasn’t done the most pain
If you step back
I can bear
In the final speak
Where is the love ?

Can give me a song’s time ?
Hold closely then the embrace becomes forever
In my mind
No need too many insomnia
If you want to forget, then I can adapt

Can give me a song’s time ?
To hear the story until the last to say good-bye
You take my tears
Let it stay in the rain
If you still doubt about my courage, it was a despicable

You said that at this time I shouldn’t say that I Love You
How to prove that I didn’t lie
Please tell me
Time out doesn’t mean that I give up
I only have memories of that day

Can give me a song’s time ?
Hold closely then the embrace becomes forever
In my mind
No need too many insomnia
If you want to forget, then I can adapt

Can give me a song’s time ?
Oh..To hear the story until the last to say good-bye
You take my tears
Let it stay in the rain
Oh..If you still doubt about my courage, it was a despicable

Rap:
You said I shouldn’t
At this time say that I Love You
How to prove that I didn’t lie
Time out doesn’t mean that I give up

I said that I shouldn’t
At this time say that I Love You
How to prove that I didn’t lie
I only have memories of that day

Damn. I thought i might be even happier, winning money at cruise enough to eat at least 4 times at Nihon Mura, but then, when i got home, my dad told me please go to the fridge and see the letter from CMPB.

The ‘lucky’ date: 12 December 2008,
The ‘lucky’ time: 0100pm
The ‘lucky’ school: Basic Military Training School Centre 1
And the ‘lucky’ place: Pulau Tekong

and it means that, my Taiwan trip end of year from 18 dec to 27 dec with family + Jeffery(my sis ’s bf) is canceled, only for me.

How sad can it be?

And thou im not mentally prepareed for National Service, i’m however physically prepared thou. Just hope I won’t die of boredom inside can already. HAHA.

Taking a look at my calender, im only left with 47 days to manhood. .

So little time left, so much things to do ..

i just hope ..

Be off to cruise again later .. Will be back on Sunday..

Mum just love bringing me to cruises, dunno why, but i would still prefer the companion of my sis, and that’ll be great.

Good Food, More Lucks, More Entertainment, More Seabreeze, here i come

Its a season of painting.

Finally, finished up with my room, now moving on to my sis’s room.
Anyone wanna hire a free lance painter? I think im qualified to be one, after learning how to paint the Perfect Wall from my dad. HAHA.

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Oh, yesterday went to Leisure Park @ Kallang with dy
,a big spacious mall with lotsa of entertainment, unique shops but no ppl -.-

It just shows that the location sucks; a 15min walk/5 min bus ride from Kallang MRT Station..

Anyway, watched Butterfly Lovers at their cinema called Film Garde, dine @ Nihon Mura, (not bad thou, kind of new style of ordering food to me), played 2 rounds of bowling and den had desert at Akashabu Japanese.

Nowadays, dating are so expensive man.. just yesterday spent like total $100 for both of us.. =/ is there any places in sg that is cheap and nice? (: leave a comment.

P/S: someone trashed me by 41 points at the 2nd round anyone wanna sign her up the next Remy Ong can leave a comment too.

nothing must to say about today, woke up @ 11am , brought my brother to KFC for a heavy lunch, request for 2 thighs was given :D at least better than MaryBrown’ s yesterday . -.-

Came down the hill at 1+ pm, as usual, steepy slopes, dangerous curves, sudden corners..

 I just realised dad’s really a good driver man.. It’s really not an easy job to drive to and fro Genting Highlands..

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Anyway, reached the Submit at 4+ , check-in hotel and watched I Guess I Guess I Guess Guess Guess on tv.. nothing much to do either.

Then dad and mum left for the wedding dinner at K.L central, which leaves me and calvin alone. “Hotel Alone 5″ , watched before? LOL.

haha.

ok gtg. btw watched house bunny just now. nice movie, and ate Sushi King with calvin.. gtg now..

they closing .. ciaos good night all.

Ok. Here am I, at Genting Highlands, First World Plaza, Starbucks Coffee, blogging.

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Anyway, why am i here at Starbucks Coffee blogging with a laptop? Instead of enjoying the rides and the shops, attractions, or whatever.

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Reason being, I’ve been here more than anyone does. My parents goes to Genting Highlands almost 10 times a year (no joke about that), and usually my lil brother will be brought along so is my sis and me(dependable on our schedules and mood).

THATS WHY WE ARE FREAKING BORED ABOUT GENTING HIGHLANDS.

 and now i can even know the locations of each shops and attractions. -.-

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Anyway, today arrived quite late, due to a heavy rain and mist, and also my dad’s car engine getting weaker.. (dad says will be getting Honda Stream next yr Jan) new car to drive weee ~

After settling down in the hotel (First World Hotel btw, as usual),  watched some tv, played some DS lite games before coming down to First World Plaza for dinner @ MaryBrown’ s.

ok, now i want to blog about this cb MANAGER, judging from the uniform this fat bitch wore as to others.

As usual, when its my turn, i ordered 3 combo sets, and after placing the orders, i requested to change my chicken pieces into thighs. I dun really like breast meat, or chicken wings, so i prefered to change them even its back at hometown at KFC.

and usually KFC staffs, WHICH ARE MORE FRIENDLIER, will replied with you a standard answer, ” Sir, there are no promises, but i’ll try my best ok (; “

AT LEAST HEAR THIS LIMBEH MORE HAPPY OK !

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GUESS WHAT THIS FAT BITCH MANAGER TELL ME.

” sorry, no change. don’t have”

I was like wtf, First, her english suck, and Second, when i saw in the production area where they kept their food everything, there are still alot thighs there.

Then i asked more friendly again, “erm, sorry, but i see there are some thighs there still, would you help me change the chicken wings into thigh meats, thanks. “

She replied, and diao me, ” no means no .”

NI NA BEI #@@!$#@$#@ I solemnly swear, if this is in SG, i sure write a complaint one.

But the worse part haven arrived yet.

When i ordered my items, i did informed her to change the drinks too, to Miranda Strawberry, rather than the usual Pepsi.

I dunno she is deaf, or retard or acting an idiot or what.

When the drinks she dispensed out, they are Pepsi !

CB ~~~ FUCKING FAT BITCH !@#@!$

i tell her again nicely, “sorry, but i ordered Strawberry, could you kindly changed for me? “

She replied, ” Sorry, already made already. “

if any of you guys be in the situation i’m in just now like this, you sure will be flared up too.

” But i asked for Strawberry, and you made Pepsi. What you meant by dunno? “

” Sorry Sir, Already make, Cannot means Cannot”

@!%#@$#@$@#@#$@#@#$@#@#$#@

if given that fact that not im that hungry just now, i would have dump the meal and walked off. What the fuck is this kind of service and attitude expected man.

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Anyway after this fed-up meal, walked about cooldown abit, and I went to watch Butterfly Lovers starred by Wu Zhun & Charlene Choi at the cinema with dad & calvin.

Not a bad movie i guess, given the fact that i never read any urban myths &s tories about Liang Shan Bo & Zhu Ying Tai, this movie clearly shows me the true meaning of the Butterfly Lovers and their destiny to be together.

The popcorns are cheap, only RM$3.50(SGD$1.75+/-), and so are the movies, RM$10.50 (SGD$5.25+/-).

Thou the seats suck, but i enjoyed the movie alot. I believes every lovers should watch this movie, to make them realise how fortunate they are being in love together without any obstacles, thou movies are just movies.

Might considered watching a second time, (;

Judging at the time now, 10.45pm, I think i better start packing up my stuffs and go back to the hotel for some sleep. Tmr might be an early trip down the mountains, as dad is changing hotel; to a hotel down the peak nearer to K.L, where he and mum will be attending a colleague’s wedding, which is also the purpose of the trip this time round.

So i might be able to get some internet connections, if there is an Starbucks Coffee, for an exchange investment of a cup of Coffee on my desk haha.

Ok , shall stop here. Ciaos Ciaos everyone, and have a good night (;

P/S: I will never suggest going to Genting Highland First World Plaza’s MaryBrown’ s again.

P/S/S: the internet suck, and this is my 3rd or 4th draft already. damn irritating typing the same thing over and over again. ;

P/S/S/S: to WendyToh, if you are reading this, pls remb to change the brushes water in the pail, and watered the plants. Thou this is not the first time you are not travelling with me, but you know that Ben always misses your companion in any trip since we are young. You know how boring it is to be with that little brat by the way. ;(

P/S/S/S/S: to someone i care, take good care and dun steal sleep @ work (; get some magazines to read, surf the net, watch some movies, watch Gossip Girls. time flies fast, oh i saw a cute pair of ear muffs sold at the Winter sales here, but you told me not to get anything for you, so i didn’t (;

my copy of Jay Chou Latest Album, Capricorn, 魔杰座.

Inside the Pre-Order Pack includes a Rubic Cube!

A Set of Limited Ed. Poker Card!

&& A Metal box for the album, (picture not taken here)

Cool huh? But whats more important is not the freebies but the songs package this time round.

The Track List
1) 龍戰騎士 Dragon Knight 4:31
2) 給我一首歌的時間 Give Me A Song Of The Time 4:13
3) 蛇舞 Snake Dance 2:55
4) 花海 Flowers Ocean 4:25
5) 魔術先生 Mr. Magic 3:48
6) 說好的幸福呢 So Good That Happiness 4:14
7) 蘭亭序 Lan Ting Xu 4:12
8. 流浪詩人 Wander Poet 2:49
9) 時光機 Time Machine 5:12
10) 喬克叔叔 Uncle Joker 4:14
11) 稻香 Rice Aroma 3:43

Personally, I like Track 2, 4, 6, 7, 8, 9 and 11. Good piece of nice ballad for track 2 & 6. And meaningful lyrics for track 11.

So, if you haven gotten his copy of the new album, you might wanna consider getting it. His albums are never disappointing as always.

P.S. the female lead in 給我一首歌的時間 (Give Me A Song Of The Time) ’s MV is chio ok !

“Love is life. And if you miss love, you miss life.”
Leo Buscaglia

How about a jack russell for companion at home to talk with me ? (;

“Sometimes, I just hope I’m that little fierce guy at that street, rather than someone trapped in a cage.. “

Benjamin Toh

Here’s one nice one coming out on his new Album,  Capricorn 魔杰座 (;

The Music Video of the Song, Fragrant Rice, 稻香

稻香

对这个世界如果你有太多的抱怨
跌倒了就不敢继续往前走
为什么人要这么的脆弱堕落
请你打开电视看看
多少人为生命在努力勇敢的走下去
我们是不是该知足
珍惜一切就算没有拥有
还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
随着稻香河流继续奔跑
微微笑小时候的梦我知道
不要哭让萤火虫带着你逃跑
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
回家吧回到最初的美好

不要这么容易就想放弃就像我说的
追不到的梦想换个梦不就得了
为自己的人生鲜艳上色
先把爱涂上喜欢的颜色
笑一个吧功成名就不是目的
让自己快乐快乐这才叫做意义
童年的纸飞机
现在终于飞回我手里
所谓的那快乐
赤脚在田里追蜻蜓追到累了
偷摘水果被蜜蜂给叮到怕了
谁在偷笑呢
我靠着稻草人吹着风唱着歌睡着了
哦哦午后吉它在虫鸣中更清脆
哦哦阳光洒在路上就不怕心碎
珍惜一切就算没有拥有
还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
随着稻香河流继续奔跑
微微笑小时候的梦我知道
不要哭让萤火虫带着你逃跑
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
回家吧回到最初的美好
还记得你说家是唯一的城堡
随着稻香河流继续奔跑
微微笑小时候的梦我知道
不要哭让萤火虫带着你逃跑
乡间的歌谣永远的依靠
回家吧回到最初的美好

English Translations

Fragrant Rice

If you have too many complaints towards this world
When you fall down you don’t dare to continue walking forward
Why must people be so weak, depraved
I ask you to turn on the TV and see
How many people bravely try hard to continue walking for their life
Shouldn’t we be content with what we have?
You should cherish everything even if you don’t possess it
I still remember you said your home was the only castle, you continue to run with the fragrance of the rice and the flowing river
Smiling, the dreams when you were young, I know
Don’t cry, let the fireflies lead you to escape, the eternal dependence of the folk song in the country
Just go home
Go back to the happiness at the very start

Don’t be so easy to give up, it’s just like I say
For dreams you can’t achieve, switch it for another and it’ll be fine
Put some colour into your life, firstly paint the colour you like on love
Come on and smile, merit and fame aren’t the goals
Let yourself be happy, this is what you call meaning
The paper airplane from my childhood, it’s finally flown back to my hand now
That so called happiness, running barefoot in the fields chasing crickets and getting tired
Picking fruits without permission and getting scared from being stung by bees, who’s sniggering?
I lean on the scarecrow while being blown by the wind while singing while sleeping
Oh oh, if the sunshine sprinkles on the road then I won’t be afraid of being broken-hearted
You should cherish everything even if you don’t possess it

I still remember you said your home was the only castle, you continue to run with the fragrance of the rice and the flowing river
Smiling, dreams when you were young, I know
Don’t cry, let the fireflies lead you to escape, the eternal dependence of the folk song in the country
Just go home
Go back to the happiness at the very start. .

How do you feel when I’m with you?

Of course, I do not know the answer. (; But for me, I feel happy everytime I’m with you.

Spectucular Match to see every night, it is definitely every contender dream to win the utimate Contender title.

Anyone wanna come to the matches ? Call me (; Its free, and refreshments are provided.

Don’t delay. (;

w.rabbit asked me a question today.
” When I’m going to France, are you going to miss me? ”

I smiled, and kept quiet.

The truth is just too painful to be said.

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The following items have been recalled due to China’s milk situation.

1) M&M Chocolates
2) Snickers Chocolates
3) Mentos Yoghurt Bottle Candy
4) Dove Chocolates
5) Oreo Wafer Sticks
6) Monmilk Chocolates
7) Dutchlady Sterilised Milks
8.) Wall’s All Natural Mango Ice Creams
9) Mini Poppers Ice Creams
10) Magnum Ice Creams
11) Moo Sandwich Ice Creams
12) Mini Cornetto Ice Creams
13) Youcan Ice Creams

Stores in SG that has all these are kindly required to remove it and make it non-sellable at the moment til the coast is clear that it’s safe for comsumption again.

If you have any of those items in your house, kindly refrain from consume them. (;

More information can be seen at Click.

- Went to Town to meet dy first and headed to had some deserts at Far East Square.
- Later on, went to this job interview at Far East Shopping Centre about selling pets food recommended by Jeff’s friend, Yi Bin, who also worked with me at the Contender job.

Now tell me,

how many companies out there are still designing a flawless scheme to lure teenagers into Network Marketing thru forms of advertisement in Newspapers and gossips about high-pay job?

I would rather work:
1) Banquet Waiter
2) Retail Sales Assistant
3) Showtec Backstage Crew(its godamn tiring)
4) Macdonalds
5) KFC
6) Taxi Driver(upon hitting 30 yrs )
7) Toilet Cleaner

THAN WORKING IN A NETWORK MARKETING COMPANY.

3 reasons to why i’ll never work for a NM company:

1st - You’ll start to lose every part of humanity in yourself, just to drive to top sales, agressively, starting to take out ur mobile phone and called every potential friends/relatives to purchase ur products, in simple, con your friends/relatives to buy ur products.

2nd - Their products are never useful, or really sellable compared to big brands. Only two kind of people will buy, 1. Idiot, 2. Too much money to waste .

3rd - I dun believe in how attractive the pay might be, earning thousands in a short period of time, I believe in reaping what I sow, using my bare hands and worked in an environment whereby I’ll enjoyed working with my colleagues and friends, unlike a salesman that goes knocking from door - to - door to buy my so-called ‘health beneficial’ products.

You might have missed out on this post > Click .

Good Day To All.

Ding Ding Ding.

Ladies and Gentleman,

Sit tight, and catch your breath.

Be prepared for the best boxers in the world, fighting for the utimate championship and the cash prize.

11 nights,
2 teams,
16 contestants,
1 champion.

Who shall win the utimate Contender title and become the boxing king of the arena?

Stay tuned.

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Currently working for this boxing event, which is currently filmed in SG, and unreleased in US yet.

Was joined with Alouis, Kevin, Jeffery, Yi Bin & Jerrold.

We are going to rock the audience with our cheers and roars. haha. (quite surprised that our jobs can even allowed us to sit in the audience and watch the match)

10 more nights to go, 1 night down, Im seeing my $xxx soon :D

(anyway, shall not say so much, cos’ everything including the outcome of the match today we saw is highly confidential and its still yet to be released in the States)

P.S. we saw wong li lin and allan wu at the event today, his damn cool and macho & she is damn hot can? ” slurps”&  will look forward for the 2nd match to start.

P.S/S. About Me updated

(Jason)
Do you hear me,
I’m talking to you
Across the water across the deep blue ocean
Under the open sky, oh my, baby I’m trying

(Colbie)
Boy I hear you in my dreams
I feel your whisper across the sea
I keep you with me in my heart
You make it easier when life gets hard

(Both)
I’m lucky I’m in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Ooohh, ooooh, oooh, oooh,
Oooh ooh ooh ooh

(Both)
They don’t know how long it takes
Waiting for a love like this
Every time we say goodbye
I wish we had one more kiss
I’ll wait for you I promise you, I will

(Both)
I’m lucky I’m in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
Lucky we’re in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday

(Jason)
And so I’m sailing through the sea
To an island where we’ll meet
You’ll hear the music fill the air
I’ll put a flower in your hair

(Colbie)
Though the breezes through trees
Move so pretty you’re all I see
As the world keeps spinning round
You hold me right here right now

(Both)
I’m lucky I’m in love with my best friend
Lucky to have been where I have been
Lucky to be coming home again
I’m lucky we’re in love every way
Lucky to have stayed where we have stayed
Lucky to be coming home someday

Ooohh, ooooh, oooh, oooh,
Oooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
Ooooh, ooooh, oooh, oooh,
Oooh, ooh, ooh, ooh.

J’espère que je peut-être la chance d’être votre ami.

Well, you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but your so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks, now I’m tryin to get back
before the cool done run out I’ll be givin it my best test
and nothin’s gonna stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it’s again my turn to win some or learn some

But I won’t hesitate no more,
no more, it cannot wait
I’m yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you’re free
look into your heart and you’ll find love love love love
listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
We’re just one big family
And it’s our godforsaken right to be loved loved loved loved loved

So, i won’t hesitate no more,
no more, it cannot wait i’m sure
there’s no need to complicate our time is short
this is our fate
I’m yours

*scat*

I’ve been spendin’ way too long checkin’ my tongue in the mirror
and bendin’ over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
and so I drew a new face and I laughed
I guess what I’d be sayin’ is there ain’t no better reason
to rid yourself of vanities and just go with the seasons
it’s what we aim to do
our name is our virtue

But I won’t hesitate no more,
no more it cannot wait
I’m yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
open up your plans and damn you’re free
look into your heart and you will find that the sky is yours

so please don’t, please don’t, please don’t,
there’s no need to complicate,
Cause our time is short
This, this, this is our fate,
I’m yours

*scat*

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Hey there Delilah
What’s it like in New York City?
I’m a thousand miles away
But girl, tonight you look so pretty
Yes you do
Times Square can’t shine as bright as you
I swear it’s true

Hey there Delilah
Don’t you worry about the distance
I’m right there if you get lonely
Give this song another listen
Close your eyes
Listen to my voice, it’s my disguise
I’m by your side

Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
What you do to me

Hey there Delilah
I know times are getting hard
But just believe me, girl
Someday I’ll pay the bills with this guitar
We’ll have it good
We’ll have the life we knew we would
My word is good

Hey there Delilah
I’ve got so much left to say
If every simple song I wrote to you
Would take your breath away
I’d write it all
Even more in love with me you’d fall
We’d have it all

Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me

A thousand miles seems pretty far
But they’ve got planes and trains and cars
I’d walk to you if I had no other way
Our friends would all make fun of us
and we’ll just laugh along because we know
That none of them have felt this way
Delilah I can promise you
That by the time we get through
The world will never ever be the same
And you’re to blame

Hey there Delilah
You be good and don’t you miss me
Two more years and you’ll be done with school
And I’ll be making history like I do
You’ll know it’s all because of you
We can do whatever we want to
Hey there Delilah here’s to you
This one’s for you

Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
Oh it’s what you do to me
What you do to me.

• - Went to Food Fair with Bing bro and Wendy no.1 to find Wendy no. 2
• - Ate like 3 little pigs.
• - Bing spent $12 on food, Ben spent $24 on food
• - Later on went to Bugis Street and shop like no tomorrow.
• - Bing bought 1 tee, 1 cardigan & 1 hoodie (BING & ME GOT THE SAME FUCKING RED HOODIE! OMG!)
• - Ben bought 1 polo-tee, 1 jeans, 1 teee & the same hoodie =.=
• - and Ben bought 1 face roll-over + 1 nose roll-over for his sister
• - Total spendings : $180 (for that day ONLY)

More details can be found from http://sweetrecollection.blogspot.com/2008/09/went-out-with-ben-binghuan-today.html

If this carries on, I’ll find myself in bankruptcy soon

Can anyone buy this camera for my christmas?

Nikon d90

- 12.9 Megapixel Dx-format CMOS sensor
- 3.0 inch LCD Screen
- Live-View with contrast detect AF
- Image Sensor Shake
- ISO 200 - 3200 (with boost 100 - 6400)
- 4.5fps
- One Button Live View
- Auto-Active D-lighting
- D-Movie Mode
- Scene Recognition Mode
- GPS geo-tagging
- Face Detection

man, i’m going to work my ass hard for this camera

let’s Stay Alive together , keep this going on (=

And here it ends the 6th consecutive run i did for Seagate under Access Direct. I’ll definitely miss my old colleagues, those that i see til sian de old friends at it shows, the typical indian bargain talk for the harddisk, the laughter, the joy spent with the colleagues and the bosses etc.

 As the saying goes, ” Old ones will have to make way for New ones” .  In this case for me, its just part and puzzle of life to find something new to do again.

Tomorrow’s JB with lou and his parents, better get some sleep soon .

Good night , world.

” Twinkle Twinkle little star . “

Or are your neighbours been tapping secretly on your wireless network that you been feeling the latency?

How about a new portable external harddisk for more storage?

Come down to Comex IT Show 2008 at Suntec City level 2, 4 & 6 this Thursday to Sunday (28th, 29th, 30th ,31st Sept) for some IT shopping to be done.

Check out the new xxx harddisk 160gb only for $99 ! (prices here are not real and changeable to the market on actual dates)

Or going for big storage, consider xxx harddisk 1TB less than $350. (prices here are not real and changeable to the market on actual dates)

Remember, don’t leave empty-handed, IT shows price are always the best, compared to Sim Lim and Funan.

Some people might be busy online, some might be phone-talking, some might be preparing cookies for the next day ’s outing, some might be even fucking at this time ..

But it means,

OFFICIALLY IM NO MORE 1Xs le -.-

20 yr old to come, i’ve lived 1/4 of my life.
And i must keep asking myself, what have i done? o.o?

See the current American Olympic Swimmer Michael Phelps , 23, so young yet break the US previous record of 7 gold medals in one Olympic game 38 yrs ago. Sighh… i also wished i can swim like a butterfly , sting like a bee at times =(

Nevertheless, don’t think too much, before 21 comes, things will get better and i’ll continue to strive hard for the things i want and my aims in life. .

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Below are some cakes contributed to my amount of virtual fats on that day
(Cakes displayed are not in order of timing delivered or most creativeness cake )

1) Edwin:

2) Eve:

3) Hoe yin:

4) KC:

5) Rachel:

6) Ruth:

7) Shaomin:

Stephanie:

9) Vanessa:

10) Wendeee, my sis:

11) Xue yi:

12) Yew aik:

13) Yanzhang:

And i noticed one thing, there are 13 cakes, which also tele to my birthday date > 13th August . wahhahah. 13 cakes on 13th August.

Anyway, Thanks to the all cakes above, and a big hug to them for drawing these. If you are looking at this post now, thanks alot xoxo, ben (;

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Officially a 2x man, im getting older as time passes each hour..

” While one finds company in himself and his pursuits, he cannot feel old, no matter what his years may be. ”
Amos Bronson Alcott

One day, the king was bitten by a dog, the finger was injured and the wound was getting worse. He asked the follower if that was a bad sign. The follower said, Good or bad, hard to say’. In the end, the finger of the king was too bad that had to be cut. The king asked the follower again if that was a bad sign. Again, the follower gave the same answer, ‘Good or bad, hard to say’. The king became very angry and sent the follower to prison.

One day, the king went hunting in the jungle. He got excited when he was on the chase of a deer. Deeper and deeper he went inside the jungle. In the end he found himself lost in the jungle. To make thing worse, he got captured by the native people lived inside the jungle.

They wanted to sacrifice him to their god. But when they noticed that the king had one finger short, they released him immediately as he was not a perfect man anymore and not suitable for sacrifice. The king managed to get back to his palace after all. And he finally understood the follower’s wise quote, ‘Good or bad, hard to say’. If he hadn’t lost one finger, he could have been killed by the native people.

He ordered to release the follower, and apologized to him. But to the king amaze, the follower was not mad at him at all. Instead, the follower said, ‘It wasn’t a bad thing that you locked me up.’ Why? Because if the king hadn’t locked the follower up, he would have brought the follower along to the jungle. If the native found that the king was not suitable, they would have used the follower. Again, the quote ‘Good or bad, hard to say’ stands.

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Moral Of the Story:

Everything that happens in this world, there is no absolute good or bad. Sometimes good things turned out to be bad things eventually, while bad things become a gain.
Whatever good things that happen to you, enjoy it, but don’t have to hold too tight to it, treat it as a surprise in your life. Whatever bad things that happen to you, don’t have to feel too sad or despair, in the end, it might not be a total bad thing after all.

” If one can understand this, he or she will find life much easier. “

its all coming. . .

this week . .
this thursday . .

familiar environment .
familiar lecturers .

its just. .

the fyp presentation . .

im talking about. .

goodluck to me .

and the rest . .

whats love like?

i lost contact with it since…

remind me whats love again..

before i regret again .. (;

So, is this what we want in the end?

Recently, I went to attend this event about this NM (Network Marketing) company XXX ,their so-called achievement awards ceremony cum talk. I would be impressed to say that their company are much more well established compared to other NM companies,, with advisors following the CEO as he take his seat. Anyway, those who knows me knows about my anti-ness for NM, and might be wondering why i attended.

Of course, like anyone, i was being tricked into going this talk, from the brilliance of my friend’s magic words. Anyway, i stood my stand strong, and listened to what they had to said or what was on the agenda for this moody afternoon.

Nevertheless, the talk lasted for like 4 to 5 hours, with a very good inspiration Malaysian speaker taking the time for close to 3 hours of the whole thing, (which i loved this part the most; shall elaborate later on) , with people proposing marriage to his girlfriend infront of a strong 500 audience
crowd and of course the whole thing about this company, family tree, products they sold etc.

Now, whats about this Network Marketing thing?

Networking? Marketing?

Nono. Network Marketing refers to a kind of method used by some companies nowadays, to sell their high-end products to the world, by using brilliance magic words and spread of networks contacts. Also known as MLM formerly, which was banned few years ago in Singapore, SLM is the word to be.

MLM refers to Multi-level Marketing, whereby, there are different levels of marketing strategies used in the company, to achieved certain sales target.
I’m sure you guys know how a pyramid looks like, whereby the peak of the pyramid is supported by different levels of the pyramid, descending, from the first block on the top of the pyramid, to probably 100blocks at the bottom supporting the rest on the top.

Same goes for the human pyramid, which is being implied in MLM, the boss is being supported by the employees bringing in sales daily/monthly/yearly, to support this whole pyramid system/their company’s sales. To put things straight across, the ones on the top, including the boss of course, are leeching on the rest of the pyramid below. This whole pyramid system can be also seen as the infrastructure of the company. If the bottom levels of the pyramid are down, the whole pyramid might colapse.

Below might be a picture i found online to let you understand clearly how it works.

As you can see cleary, first the boss will recruit the pioneers of the company, and teach them how to bring in sales, using their network contacts and asking them to do so too. Then as time passes, more and more people will joined this company , from the spread of the words about how attractive the pay scheme and commissions could be, by joining this company, and asking more contacts to join too.

One clear difference you can see from here, that as the bottom levels keep growing, the top levels can become more relax and more relaxing. So simply, they are just leeching your sales, when you bring person in, and do sales for you. By leeching 1% of ur sales profit, it is already enough, as they are leeching a 100 of you. All these things clearly, when one went to their attractive and wow interview talk, of course they will tell you every thing nice about this job. In short, it means , the boss is sitting in his office, shaking his leg, while his downlines is bringing him the sales.

This is one reason, why MLM/Pyramid Selling is banned in Singapore, the illegal marketing strategy used by companies once to attain no-pain-and-gain money for the boss and the toplines in a MLM company.

However, MLM din’t died just like that. Instead, they are converting to SLM, or Single Level Marketing, whereby once the new employee hit a certain target for that company, no more leeching is being done once you hit the same rank as your supervisor/toplines. Whats the difference of this?

And so as you are working hard, trying to get contacts, to buy your so-called beneficial products offered by the company, the boss and the higher levels one are leeching your sales once you clinch every deal of it. And oh, they will tell you, if you hit a certain target, you are being promoted. Why not? It is just to attract your attention and your aggression in making sales for them, and then they earned tons of money of it, and ranks doesnt matter to them. Why be stupid and let the bosses leech you while you are working /slogging hard like a dog outside there?

And one thing about NM companies is that they like to push car incentive schemes for you, let say you hit 100k for this company, you are entitled to any car of your choice be it Merces, BMW, Audi, Lexus etc. . But have you think, that the company is so stupid to buy this car for you once you hit them? No. You have to keep producing results to show them, to keep bringing in sales for the company.

This is only the pros of a NM company. But once, you stop producing results, thats a gg for you. Good Game.
Your car, they will take back, or might just leave with you with debts, stripped you of your post. And there goes your luxury life. Not forgetting your friends who once grew thick and thin with you whom you just abandon while you become richer and richer one day in this company.

Oh, reminding me of this, once you entered a Network Marketing company, there’s no more u-turn for you. You will notice that, to be aggressive in sales to hit your so-called whatever incentive or car schemes, you will need to bring in more sales. That’s when, you look into your hp contacts, and start contacting friends/relatives to start off with to buy your so-called beneficial products. You will go into a state of madness or ki-siao-ness to draw people’s attention into buying your products, no matter what, and then con them to ask to ask their friends/relatives too. This is normal, when you are working in a NM company, to keep on con-ing and con-ing. And thats when, your friends know about your main motives , as a NM agent, to psycho and asked them to do such things to get sales, sooner or later, one by one will leave you.

And one day, when you found out that you run out of contacts, thats the day when you realised, you are no-one anymore and just some beggar on the streets, begging for money and friends.

Below is a true story by someone who worked in a NM before.
Click here

To think of it, i would rather live in a HDB flat , drive a normal car and be happy with my friends, than stay in private estate with a big luxury car yet no friends and no humanity at all. In fact, one of my close friend, his cousin broke up with his boyfriend, just because of this kind stupid issues. Ain’t that stupid? Just by joining a NM company, when you think you be rich in few days/weeks/months, but yet you din realise, you are lossing love, friends, and part of you everyday .

So, think twice again folks, there’s no free lunch in this world. You want money, you earned hard for it, not going against your conscience and selling so-called beneficial products to your friends/relatives to earn that money. If they are beneficial products, why wouldn’t they just advertise on the market, rather than telling you this is approved by some miscanllaneous/unknown companies standard approval?

At the end of the day, its not about what you want, its about who you are.

I would choose to be a poor guy with friends, loves and humanity, than someone that lost his/her conscience and loved ones, just for money.

Have we ever wondered why friends around you tell lies all the time?

Self Desires? or Beneficial Lies to the world ?

In life, it is hard not to say a lie. Be it good lies, bad lies, human are always tempted to lie. Good lies refers to the beneficial of all, whereas bad lies are for self desires, in a form of either greed, lust or humanity. Most of the time, in this super realistic world, we tell lies not because we want to, but is because we have to. Sometimes, people tell lies, cos they have to fight for their own survival in the world, or they are being put into a corner. Then the utimate liar appears.

Take for example, David is having a party event tonight at a club with his colleagues, as a form of celebration, but his wife, doesn’t like that idea. So ? what did David do in the end? This kind of situation happens most of time, around us, just that we didn’t notice about it, and David, as a faithful and loyal husband, at the same time as a diligent and loyal worker too, doesn’t want to dissapoint his colleagues, for his colleagues are throwing a celebration party for him, are being put to a test. In this kind of situation, he has to give face to his colleagues meanwhile, hiding this thing from his wife, as he knows his wife doesn’t like this at all.

So what did he do to resolve everything?

“Darling. tonight im going to meet some clients for dinner, I’ll be late home, don’t wait for me, good night. Loves, David. ”

So, simply telling a lie, to cover everything, means everything is over?                                                                                            

The answer is no.

Worst-Case-Scenario:                                                                                                                                                               
David’s wife ’s friend was at the club at the same time, coincidentally, saw David, and say ‘Hi’ to him. Meanwhile, when his wife’s friend meet up his friend another day for coffee, guess what happens when the friend told his wife about his husband he saw that day in the club. She is completely caught unaware that her husband is dancing and drinking all night long when she supposed to thought that her husband is having dinner with some important clients. What would she think when she heard this?

Nothing, but lies, from him.

He could have made the situation better abit by being honest with his wife, but he knows that his wife will be abit unglam about the idea, but he has no choice. If we put ourselves in David’s shoes, what will you do? Lie, or tell the truth?

And in this-realistic-and-cruel-world we are living in, everyone makes a living, by telling lies at times. Out of how many millions or billions of people living in the country/world you are living in, are purely honest ones?

Probably the answer is 1 out of 1000 in such cases? And what happened when that pure one is being mingled and mixed into such a society we are living? The chances of that person still remaining purely honesty and not telling a single lie is slim, in the world are we living in now.

Everything’s about lies, Everywhere’s about lies, Today you come to this shop, they tell you this bag cost $35, then you went home deciding, and came back the next day to hear the bag cost $45. Not because they are lying about the price, but this is the world are living in, the sales they had to make, the lies they had to tell customers, in order to make a living for themselves.

And for promoters its even worse, there’s no such thing now such as honest sales anymore. Not from what i seen for the past few years, in the sales line. Everyone’s telling a big lie, to fight for their commissions, their own sales, their own survival. Dishonest sales, what i meant by that? Selling a customer or i say as, bluffing a customer your way thru, something that they don’t need is considered one. Take for example, a customer walks in this to a megastore and asked for a washing machine, but instead Adam walks to her and serve her. As Adam is not part of the store but as a promoter for its own brand, of course, he will have to fight for this potential customer, and ‘psycho’ the customer to purchase the cooking oven, which he is promoting as well.  Being a foolish yet honest person, the customer took every word the promoter said. Unsurprisingly, under the wonderful and brilliant spell cast by Adam, the customer unnoticingly fall into his trap and bought the oven as well. Little did she know when she reached home, she realised her oven is still working fine, and has no need for it. So , is the blame on the customer’s foolingness and honesty, or is the blame on the promoter who are telling a big lie to sell his products despite his wonderful sales talk?

The never-ending answer is, both are at blame. It is because of such foolish yet honest person existence that the liars around triumph to victory. Lies will bring about karma, and karma will fall on people, one day, and thats what i believe. Whatever you reaped, is whatever you sowed. One day, we will realise that the beneficial lies we said can be actually presented in a more honesty way, and the self-desire lies will be brought back upon us, from others.

However, we constantly always making the world a peaceful place to live in, but one day, if only all liars turn into honest people that does’nt tell a lie no matter what they do, then the world will be a conflictless place to be in.

But that day will never come.

8th July was yz’s birthday, and so was the last day before nerd gone into NS. and we went to catch the movie You Don’t Mess with the Zohan, play bomberman and then to Paris for a splendid goodbye-for-nerd-cum-yz-20th-birthday meal. haha.

#01 - of cos, i never leave home without my dslr camera when its a big gathering.

#02 - Some Orchard roadss scenery to get the ball rolling

#03 - Takashimayaaa

#04 - Park hotelllll

#05 - 20th birthday liao, still bomberman -.- grow up leh..

#06 - another one playing his soccer virtual arcade when Euro 08 is over -.-

#07 - Cinesnax, any popcorns/nachos chips guys?

#08 - i dunno why Edwin also wan take this picture LOL

#09 - okay my dslr can produce good depth of field pictures.

#10 - and moving on to Paris , the international buffet restaurant.<